22 Things a Woman Must Know If She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome

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When it does, it is dazzling, and you appreciate it so much more than someone who lives in a place where the sun always shines. After a tiresome day, make her forget all her problems by planning a simple candle-lit dinner at home. It is hoped that your AS man has learnt to trust and respect his own original thinking on many matters.

And, because they sometimes need to retreat and rejuvenate from a world which is constantly confusing to them, periods of solitude are an almost universal requirement for those with AS.Many women say that they enjoy the challenge of dating their AS male; that they get bored with an easy relationship. To ensure accurate diagnosis, try to find a doctor that is an expert; one who truly understands adult Asperger’s and knows what to look for. Maxine Aston ISBN 978 1 84310 253 3 Asperger Syndrome (AS) can affect some of the fundamental ingredients required to make a relationship work, such as emotional empathy and communication.

This announcement may come early on, or later, after a lot of time and effort on your part to create a healthy relationship and make him happy. He probably was criticized by his parents or previous girlfriends for it and believes you will probably take issue with it as well. And, of course, these are generalizations, even if they are gleaned from specific instances and testimonies, and I stress: not all of them will apply to everyone. Find a non-biased, non-judgmental listener who isn’t just going to take your side, but will try to work with you to figure things out.

From the Foreword by Maxine Aston, author of The Other Half of Asperger Syndrome, Aspergers in Love and The Asperger Couples Workbook. From these three sources I compiled a list of traits, problems, and solutions—or at least healthy coping skills. The accident was entirely his fault but he blamed everyone else, including the cop that gave him the resultant ticket. This book is directed mainly toward female partners of men with AS; to discuss what problems they will likely encounter, and why.

This book looks at 22 common traits that women may discover when they are dating, living with or married to a man with Asperger's Syndrome. If sex is very important to you, you may have to consider having a friendship with him and looking elsewhere for romance. But as soon as he feels he knows all there is to know about a person or topic, and has decided it is not someone or something which interests him, he can be quite rude.Counselors and other professionals working with women with AS will find the insight offered extremely enlightening. However, if AS is not recognized, then neither partner will be aware of the cause and this will often result in blaming and frustration. Women are sensitive beings and may forgive you eventually but may not forget the words you said in a fit of anger.