Bedtime Spankings: Bent Over!

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She figured she’d get aroused from being spanked regardless — she had the last couple of times Charlie had spanked her — but the plug just made it more intense as it shifted and jumped with each swat. JessyMay So the person that misbehaved get spanked last but do they get a worse spanking than the others for causing the problem or do they get spanked the same? You're not helping him fall asleep if you're in there spanking him and you're just harboring resentment about your "sacrifice" of staying in there with him (as if he has any concept of that.

As he spanked, he continued telling her that he needed her to be a good girl, that if she was bad she would get spanked harder, that she was very naughty already, that it must feel strange to have a plug in while getting spanked. In reality, handing out spankings every night isn’t feasible or sustainable, so it was a rash decision that both parties knew was done in haste. BabyCenter is committed to providing the most helpful and trustworthy pregnancy and parenting information in the world. We tried taking away a privilege, like going to the pool or having ice cream the next day, warning him it'll happen if he keeps getting out of bed, but it didn't seem to faze him either. Oh I remember when I had to spank my brother Lucas for spilling chocolate milk on me while I was asleep and let me tell you, I spanked him enough to where he slept on his stomach the rest of the night.BabyCenter supports Group Black Opens a new window and its mission to increase greater diversity in media voices and media ownership. These are bedtime spankings, told in the words of the girls who received them, all of whom were spanked to tears before they went to bed.

By the end of our two weeks together your child will be falling asleep unassisted, taking long naps and sleeping through the night consistently. If she wakes in the night go back in and sit in the same place after a very brief kiss and reminder that it’s time for sleep. I just dont want to completely ignore her and I dont want her to feel abandoned but I also know that going in isn’t helping. A “burst” is when a recently sleep trained child gets a wild hair and starts testing his boundaries again.

That said, we also feel like he’s come to the realization that getting out of bed is what actually gets us back into his room. I really hope you asked this just to have a discussion or something and not bc you want to spank your LO for not sleeping. We first started laying in the bed with her, but that isn’t what we want to do with her and we don’t want her to sleep in our bed. I am a Pediatric Child Sleep Expert , Certified Lactation Counselor, and a mom of 7 children (+ 2 bonus sons) who has helped families for well over a decade to finally get a restful night's sleep. Early bedtime is a traditional punishment; some modern psychologists recommend not to use it because bedtime and sleep should not be associated with punishment.